Sorry for the delay on this–our internet’s been a little spooky today. What is burning a hole through your stomach, heart, third eye, or big toe right now? Ask Todd Pendu in the comments starting… now! Wait, wait, hang on a sec. No questions about time, like “how long until I…” or anything about the future. Ask something where you’re looking for an outcome–a “what is this” or “how can I?” kind of thing. And mind your own business and keep this about you. So no questions about whether or not your boyfriend’s cheating on you (if you’re asking it, he is) or whether you’re going to show up for an important meeting in a stretch Hummer where you will be showered with cheese plates and money (the answer is no).
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